Hello, I'm Tammy
I was the steady one, and I called it a good life.
For thirty years I worked in healthcare, beginning as a nursing assistant in hospice and later serving as a patient advocate and in quality and compliance, and in every one of those rooms I did the same thing. I asked why. Then I asked why again, because I have always believed there is a thing beneath the thing, and that nothing makes sense until you find it.
At home I was the woman who kept everything running. I remembered the birthdays, I smoothed the hard days, I said yes before I had checked in with myself, and somewhere along the way I made my own life very small so everyone else's could stay big. From the outside it looked calm and capable. On the inside I was tired in a way sleep never touched.
Then, at fifty two, I went through cancer treatment, and I carried much of it alone, because that is what the steady one does. Sitting in those waiting rooms, I finally turned my favorite question on myself. Why did I do this alone? Why couldn't I ask anyone for help? Why did saying no feel like danger?
The answer wasn't that something was wrong with me. I was running on a survival pattern, and it had been protecting me for most of my life.
Learning to see that pattern, understand what it was guarding, and let my body believe it was finally safe changed everything for me. My children grew up, the house got quieter, and the hours that used to belong to everyone else started asking who they belonged to now. I just turned sixty, and I can tell you that I'm not starting over. I'm coming home to the woman who was always underneath the rules.
That is the work I do now, and it's the work I want to do with you. We don't fix what isn't broken. We understand it, we thank it, and we choose what comes next.
An invitation
The Patterns to Purpose 12-Week Group Cohort
This is a small, close circle of twelve women over fifty, and we stop at twelve on purpose. This twelve week journey has been walked before, and I built what you'll find here around what helped women most.
The circle stays small because a group this size means you are known by name, heard fully, and held by the same women week after week. Nobody gets lost in a crowd, and nobody has to perform.
If you recognize yourself in the yes that comes out before you've decided, the need to handle everything yourself, the busyness that keeps you from ever stopping, the stomach drop when you think about saying no, or the way you bristle when someone questions you and then replay it all night, you are exactly who this was built for. Those aren't flaws in your character. They are intelligent, tired survival patterns that have defended a lifetime of work nobody saw, and in this cohort we treat them with respect.
What's included
- 12 live group coaching sessions with Tammy
- The Patterns to Purpose Method Workbook
- Your own custom Pathways Map
- Lifetime access to our private Skool community sisterhood
Two circles to choose from
Wednesday evenings. We meet at 7:00 PM Eastern for one hour, beginning November 11 and ending February 17. We take a break for Thanksgiving week and the end of December.
Saturday mornings. We meet at 11:00 AM Eastern for one hour, beginning December 5 and ending February 27. We take a break the day after Christmas.
Each circle holds twelve women, and you can choose whichever fits your life.
$2,000
Investment. Secure enrollment is available through PayPal or Venmo.
Full refund any time before our second session. 50% refund through our third session. No refunds after that.
To secure your seat in our upcoming cohort, fill out the brief application below. I read every one myself.
